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Parenting style

What is my parenting style?

18 statements about everyday life with your child. Answer honestly: it is for you, and nothing is stored.

  • Think about an ordinary week, not your best or worst day.
  • If you have several children, think about one of them.
  • This is a self-reflection tool, not a diagnosis. The link to the result works for two hours.
Question 1 of 18I hug my child, praise them or tell them I love them.
Question 2 of 18Our family has clear rules, and my child knows them.
Question 3 of 18When I'm angry, I shout at my child.
Question 4 of 18Every day I find time to talk with my child about their day.
Question 5 of 18When I say something, I follow through and keep my word.
Question 6 of 18I use threats to get obedience: 'If you don't…, I'll…'.
Question 7 of 18When my child is upset, I listen first and give advice afterwards.
Question 8 of 18I explain to my child why a rule matters.
Question 9 of 18I punish my child without explaining why.
Question 10 of 18I know my child's friends, interests and worries.
Question 11 of 18I give my child duties that suit their age.
Question 12 of 18I compare my child with other children.
Question 13 of 18When my child has a problem, they come to me.
Question 14 of 18My child has a regular routine for sleep, meals and study.
Question 15 of 18I decide everything for my child, even small things they could choose themselves.
Question 16 of 18My child and I play or do something enjoyable together.
Question 17 of 18When it is safe, I let my child face the natural consequences of their choices.
Question 18 of 18When my child disagrees with me, I end the conversation: 'Because I said so!'