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Phones, games and screens7–11 years

Meltdowns when screen time ends

Does every 'that's enough' end in tears and anger? Shared family rules and a warning in advance can make switching off much calmer.

What you may notice

  • When you take the phone or tablet, your child screams, cries or won't hand it over.
  • They always ask for 'one more minute' or 'one more game', and the minutes keep stretching.
  • After the screen goes off, they stay irritable, restless or bored for a while.
  • Arguments about screen time happen every day and spoil the mood at home.

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Possible reasons, step-by-step actions, what to avoid, how to use your child's strengths, and when to see a specialist.