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Siblings and friends7–11 years

My child is being bullied at school

If your child is being hurt or teased at school, believe them and act calmly but firmly together with the school. No child should face this alone.

What you may notice

  • Your child doesn't want to go to school or complains of headaches or tummy aches in the mornings.
  • They come home with torn clothes, bruises, or without some of their things or lunch money.
  • They have become quiet, sad or irritable, sleep badly or have lost their appetite.
  • They avoid talking about classmates and no longer mention friends.
  • They suddenly look upset or frightened after checking their phone or messages.

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Possible reasons, step-by-step actions, what to avoid, how to use your child's strengths, and when to see a specialist.