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Siblings and friends7–11 years

My child has no friends

Does your child spend break times alone and never invite anyone home? Find out how they feel about it and help them make a friend in small steps.

What you may notice

  • Your child is mostly on their own at break and after school.
  • They are rarely invited to classmates' birthdays or games.
  • They say, 'Nobody plays with me' or 'They don't want me.'
  • They don't know how to join a game: they either hang back or try to take charge straight away.
  • They spend more time with adults, younger siblings or screens than with children their own age.

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Possible reasons, step-by-step actions, what to avoid, how to use your child's strengths, and when to see a specialist.