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Sibling fights

Do your children fight every day over toys, seats or whose turn it is? Instead of being the referee, teach them to sort out disagreements themselves.

What you may notice

  • Your children often argue over toys, the TV or places at the table.
  • Quarrels turn into shouting, pushing or hitting.
  • Each child runs to you and demands that you take their side.
  • You often hear 'It's not fair!' or 'You love him more!'

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Possible reasons, step-by-step actions, what to avoid, how to use your child's strengths, and when to see a specialist.