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Fear of the dark

Fear of the dark is a normal part of growing up. Take it seriously and, step by step, help your child feel safe at night.

What you may notice

  • Your child won't stay in a dark room and asks you to leave the light on.
  • At bedtime they call you again and again, ask for water or say they're scared.
  • They talk about monsters, 'someone' under the bed or scary shadows.
  • They wake at night, cry and come to your bed.
  • In the evening they stay close to you and are afraid to be alone.

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Possible reasons, step-by-step actions, what to avoid, how to use your child's strengths, and when to see a specialist.