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Behaviour and discipline7–11 years

My child doesn't listen

Do you repeat the same thing again and again while your child seems not to hear? Short, clear requests, a steady routine and warm time together make cooperation easier.

What you may notice

  • Your child only does what you ask after several reminders.
  • While playing or watching a screen, they seem not to hear your voice.
  • They say 'in a minute' or 'OK' but never actually do it.
  • They argue with every request or answer sharply.

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Possible reasons, step-by-step actions, what to avoid, how to use your child's strengths, and when to see a specialist.