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Bedtime battles every night

Is every evening full of 'one more story', tears and running about? A calm, steady routine turns bedtime from a battle into a habit.

What you may notice

  • Every evening your child wants one more story, one more drink or one more hug.
  • They get out of bed again and again, or won't lie down and run about instead.
  • Bedtime ends in tears, shouting or long negotiations.
  • They fall asleep at a different time each night, sometimes very late.
  • In the morning they are hard to wake, and in the daytime they are grumpy.

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