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Exam stress and anxiety

Is your teenager unable to sleep, snappy or saying 'I've forgotten everything' before an exam? A clear plan, a steady routine and your calm support ease the worry.

What you may notice

  • Your teenager sleeps badly, has lost their appetite or, on the contrary, eats a lot.
  • They get irritated easily, cry or take offence at the smallest remark.
  • They complain of headaches or stomach aches, especially on the morning of an exam.
  • They sit over their books for hours but say nothing stays in their head.
  • They keep talking about failing: 'I'll definitely fail.'

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Possible reasons, step-by-step actions, what to avoid, how to use your child's strengths, and when to see a specialist.